Empty Mailboxes

I look forward to hearing the mail truck outside my house.  Each day I go to the mailbox hoping to find a cream colored envelope from Compassion with those happy words in blue, “A Message From Your Sponsored Child.”  With 15 children that I am either sponsoring or corresponding with, letters do come regularly.  While I know it’s not realistic to find a letter every day, I have to admit to a tiny twinge of disappointment when there are no letters.  If a week or two pass without a letter that twinge starts growing a little.  However I realize that soon again I will open up my mailbox to a cherished letter.

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Now imagine you are a child growing up in the poorest of circumstances.  Life is hard, but you are part of the Compassion program.  You get to go to school and eat nutritious food.  You get regular medical screenings.  All because of your sponsor.  You hear about God’s love for you and you know the workers at the Compassion center love you.  But one thing is missing.  Time and time again you have to watch your friends receive letters and your hands are empty.  You get to see the joy on their faces as they read words of encouragement and love, yet your sponsor’s voice is silent.  Not just week after week, but sometimes year after year.  I can only imagine that you would have to wonder “Why?”.  Was it something you did?  Does your sponsor not love you?

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Last week I received a packet of letters from each of my children’s pastors.  Fifteen letters from ten different countries on four different continents.  They had a common thread that ran through them.  Without fail, each pastor spoke of the importance of sponsor letters.  They spoke of the children’s joy when they read words of encouragement from their sponsors and their happiness to know their sponsors loved them and were praying for them.  They also spoke of the sadness and disappointment by those who did not hear from their sponsors.

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If you sponsor a child I want to encourage you to write today!  If you’ve been a less than stellar sponsor in the past, it doesn’t matter.  Today is a new day.  Commit to writing to your child and building a relationship with them.  Encourage them.  Share your life with them.  Share God’s Word.  Let them know that they are special and that they matter.

Proverbs 16:24 – Pleasant words are a honeycomb: sweet to the taste and health to the body.

Perhaps you want to take the step to sponsor a child and partner with Compassion to help release them from poverty in Jesus’ name.  Click here to start your sponsorship journey.  It will be the very best decision you make today.

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How can it be enough?

Last Saturday I received several pieces of mail from Compassion.  I took a break and sat down to read my “Happy Mail”.  The last letter was from 9-year old Godfrey in Uganda.  The front page of the form letter told me about his village and community.  I flipped the letter over and was stopped cold by this: IMG_2990Godfrey was writing to tell me that his mother had died in April.  Tears immediately began to fall and I sat in silence clutching the letter praying and mourning for him.  This little boy who is only 1 1/2 weeks younger than my daugher had already lost his father before I had began to write to him.  Now he was an orphan. I wondered what illness had taken his mother’s life.  Was is AIDS?  Was it malaria?  I will probably never know.  I soon sat down and wrote him a letter.  What do you say to someone so young who has lost so much?  I told him that I loved him.  I told him how sad I was.  I reassured him that God knew how he was feel and the He loved him.  I wrote scripture from Psalms.  I made a “hug” to send him using my hand prints and sent a photo of me holding his “hug”. IMG_317copy7 I placed it all in an envelope and held it tightly, prayed over it, and dropped it in the mail slot.  As I left the post office I though of how it seemed insufficient.  I wondered how it could ever be enough.  God gently reminded me that it was.  Even though all I had to offer was feebly written words, they were penned in love and written besides the unchangeable truth from God’s Word…and that made it enough. God reminded me of just how much power words have….both healing words and hurtful words.  Proverbs 12:8 states that, “Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing”  Word of encouragement to a child have great power.  It’s why I have committed to writing to children all over the world. If I hadn’t been reminded of the importance of what I do as a Compassion advocate and correspondent by that point, God had one more reminder for me that day.  As I pulled into the parking lot of my next destination, Audio Adrenaline’s “Kings & Queens” began playing.  These lyrics came from my speakers.

Little hands, shoeless feet, lonely eyes looking back at me Will we leave behind the innocent too brief On their own, on the run when their lives have only begun These could be our daughters and our sons And just like a drum I can hear their hearts beating I know my God won’t let them be defeated Every child has a dream to belong and be loved

Break our hearts once again Help us to remember when We were only children hoping for a friend Won’t you look around these are the lives that the world has forgotten Waiting for doors of our hearts and our homes to open

Boys become kings, girls will be queens Wrapped in Your majesty  When we love, when we love the least of these Then they will be brave and free Shout your name in victory When we love when we love the least of these

So to those people who saw someone at the farmer’s market wandering around with a tear-stained face, sorry, but I had just had a holy moment with my God. UG4280278 And to Godfrey…You may wonder how it’s possible that someone on the other side of the world who has only spoken to you in a handful of letters can love you so much.  It’s because God placed you into my life and into my heart.  We may never get to meet face to face, but I commit to continue to pray for you, and to write words of encouragement to you.  I will keep your precious letter close.  It will serve to be a reminder to me of the ministry that God has for me to do.  I won’t let you down.