5 Reasons to consider sponsoring a child with Compassion International

IMG_0535If you’ve known me for any length of time, you know that the work of Compassion has become very important to me.  My family and I sponsor 2 children and I am a correspondent sponsor to 13 more kids from all over the world.  I have been a sponsor since 2008, and advocate since 2013 and last year I traveled to Tanzania to meet my sponsored child, Mwajuma.  You may say, “So that’s great for you, but why should I sponsor a child?”  If I had to boil it down, I would give you these 5 reasons.

  1. God’s word is VERY clear about our response to the poor & hurting.

There are over 2,000 verses in the Bible that deal with poverty, injustice, and what our response should be.   Just a few of them…..

“For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me…” MATTHEW 25:35-36 (NIV)

“Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute.” PROVERBS 31:8 (NIV)

“Defend the cause of the weak and fatherless; maintain the rights of the poor and oppressed.” PSALM 82:3 (NIV)

We can not say we believe God’s word and then ignore His commands regarding the poor.

  1. Sponsorship gives me a much needed dose of perspective

Before I sponsored a child if you were to ask me if I was rich, I might have scoffed in your face.  No way!  I’m NOT rich.  I would not have claimed to be poor, but I certainly did not think I was rich.  The problem with that thinking though is that I was comparing myself to the people around me.  I live near Indianapolis and I could drive you past many affluent neighborhoods to demonstrate just how “not rich” I was in comparison.  However compared to the 7 billion people on this planet (and I believe that’s how God sees it) I am downright loaded.  Consider this:

If you made $1500 last year, you’re in the top 20% of the world’s income earners.

If you earn $25,000 or more annually, you are in the top 10% of the world’s income-earners.***

If you earn more than $50,000 annually, you are in the top 1% of the world’s income earners   (Source:  MSN Money)

 There’s no other way to put it….we are rich.  Sponsoring a child has given me and my children a more Godly perspective on money and possessions.

  1. Sponsorship has connected me and my kids to other parts of the world

I can’t tell you how fun it is to learn more about our children’s traditions and customs.  We gain a new understanding of different parts of the world.  We also get to share our traditions with them.  My kids learn about a world that is so much more than just their little corner of it.

  1. Sponsorship connects me with God’s church around the world.

Each Compassion project is facilitated through a local church.  When I give my sponsorship money, I am partnering with God’s family.  I get the incredible privilege of working together with His church all over the world as they do this work in Jesus’ name.  These center and church staff are the true heroes of Compassion in my opinion.  They are the ones getting their hands dirty; working constantly to serve, meet needs and share the truth of the gospel to these children, their families, and their communities.

  1. I get the privilege of speaking truth into a child’s life.

I believe the most important component of sponsorship is the letters.  Yes, the money is of great worth.  It is used to provide much needed services, but the letters I write can be used by God to change a life.  Poverty will lie to kids.  It will tell them that life is hopeless and that they are worthless .  God can use words of encouragement and Bible verses that I’ve written to remind my child that they are of great worth, that they have value and there is hope.

Bonus reason #6.  It moves me from agreement to action

For years my husband and I both agreed that child sponsorship was a good thing and that we should do it someday.  Someday.  After these bills were paid…when we were making a little more money…someday.  In 2008, God got my attention and someday became NOW.  It’s all to easy to agree that something is a good idea and not ever act on it.  Social media begs us to click “like”, to retweet, or to “share” a post.  We do these things and feel like we’re making a difference.  They have a word for that…slacktivism.  “Liking” something never fed a hungry child.  Agreeing with a principle never treated an illness.  “Someday” doesn’t accomplish God’s purpose.  It’s time for “Now”.

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Sponsorship costs $38/month.  I currently have 14 child sponsorship packets of kids who are waiting for a sponsor.  If you want to move from someday to now send me a message at dhhackney@sbcglobal.net.  I would love to introduce you to one of these beautiful kids.

Compassion Sunday

This past Sunday we held our 3rd ever Compassion Sunday event at Hope Community.  Our church numbers around 250 attenders and our people already sponsor around 50 children through Compassion.  My goal going into the day was 2-fold.  First, was to encourage those who already sponsor to deepen their relationship with their child through regular letter writing.  The second was the opportunity for our newer members to have the chance to sponsor a child or possibly for some sponsors to add a child.

The entire service was geared around our partnership with Compassion.  Several sponsors spoke on how sponsorship had affected them personally.  Our pastor did a wonderful job preaching on the importance or serving the poor and marginalized.  When the day was done 11 children had been sponsored.  I could not have been happier!

We have a bulletin board at Hope that has all of the kids photos and locations on it.  What fun to add 11 new faces!

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Compassion sent me 25 sponsorship packets this year and that means I still have packets for 14 beautiful children who are still waiting for a sponsor.  Sponsorship with Compassion costs $38/month.

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It still remains as one of the best decisions I ever made.  It’s amazing to me to see how one small decision to sponsor a child changed my life.  It’s fun to how sponsorship starts to change other people and their perspective too.  I will have packets for these 14 children until May 15th.  If you would like more information about any of these precious kids or sponsorship through Compassion contact me at dhhackney@sbcglobal.net.

Empty Mailboxes

I look forward to hearing the mail truck outside my house.  Each day I go to the mailbox hoping to find a cream colored envelope from Compassion with those happy words in blue, “A Message From Your Sponsored Child.”  With 15 children that I am either sponsoring or corresponding with, letters do come regularly.  While I know it’s not realistic to find a letter every day, I have to admit to a tiny twinge of disappointment when there are no letters.  If a week or two pass without a letter that twinge starts growing a little.  However I realize that soon again I will open up my mailbox to a cherished letter.

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Now imagine you are a child growing up in the poorest of circumstances.  Life is hard, but you are part of the Compassion program.  You get to go to school and eat nutritious food.  You get regular medical screenings.  All because of your sponsor.  You hear about God’s love for you and you know the workers at the Compassion center love you.  But one thing is missing.  Time and time again you have to watch your friends receive letters and your hands are empty.  You get to see the joy on their faces as they read words of encouragement and love, yet your sponsor’s voice is silent.  Not just week after week, but sometimes year after year.  I can only imagine that you would have to wonder “Why?”.  Was it something you did?  Does your sponsor not love you?

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Last week I received a packet of letters from each of my children’s pastors.  Fifteen letters from ten different countries on four different continents.  They had a common thread that ran through them.  Without fail, each pastor spoke of the importance of sponsor letters.  They spoke of the children’s joy when they read words of encouragement from their sponsors and their happiness to know their sponsors loved them and were praying for them.  They also spoke of the sadness and disappointment by those who did not hear from their sponsors.

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If you sponsor a child I want to encourage you to write today!  If you’ve been a less than stellar sponsor in the past, it doesn’t matter.  Today is a new day.  Commit to writing to your child and building a relationship with them.  Encourage them.  Share your life with them.  Share God’s Word.  Let them know that they are special and that they matter.

Proverbs 16:24 – Pleasant words are a honeycomb: sweet to the taste and health to the body.

Perhaps you want to take the step to sponsor a child and partner with Compassion to help release them from poverty in Jesus’ name.  Click here to start your sponsorship journey.  It will be the very best decision you make today.

It just so happened….

I don’t believe too strongly in coincidences.  I think things happen for a reason and can be used for God’s purposes.  This is especially true when it comes to my experiences with child sponsorship and Compassion.

I’m always fascinated by the process of selecting a child to sponsor.  Some people search for a child from a particular country.  Some are looking for a specific gender, age, or birth date.  A lot of times I hear this phrase, “Something about him/her just spoke to me”.  So many sponsorship stories could be told with the phrase, “I just happened to…, there just happened to be…, etc.  I know better.  The God who knows every detail about me and you is the same God who knows everything about each of these children waiting for sponsors.  I believe He knows their every need and He knows who their sponsor is.

This past week I had the privilege of working at the sponsorship table for two events,  Stand Strong with Nick Vujicic and Living Proof Live with Beth Moore.  If you haven’t heard of Nick you need to head over to YouTube and watch some of his message.  Nick was born without arms and legs.  He has dedicated himself to sharing God’s message of love, forgiveness, and hope around the world.  He never cuts corners when declaring his faith and how God has changed his life.  God is using Nick in a great way!nick

I always try to find a child who’s birthday is on the day of the event I am working and put it out front and center on the table.  At Nick’s event I couldn’t find one for that day, but I found a little boy who’s birthday was the next day.  Since this was our first event with Nick our goal was more about presence and awareness than high numbers of sponsorships.  There were two children sponsored that evening.  One of them “just so happened” to be the little boy from Africa with the birthday coming up.  As his new sponsor was filling out the forms I came to this realization:  in Africa, where this little boy lived it was already the next day.  God did indeed provide him with a sponsor, and it happened on his birthday!

At Living Proof Live, we rejoiced that 119 children were sponsored!  Again, there were sponsorship stories that made it undeniable that our God is working out everything according to His plan.

One woman asked if we had any children from Brazil to sponsor since she didn’t see any on the table.  I told her that Brazil was one of the countries that we worked in and I sat a box full of packets on the table and began searching through them.  After a few moments and no Brazil I asked, “And there were none on the table, right?”  She said no and then immediately said, “Wait a minute!  It’s right there in front of my nose.”  Sitting on the table in front of both of us was a little girl from Brazil.  I discovered that this woman was from Brazil and after looking at the information we found that the little girl lived not too far from where this woman had grown up.  Smiles all around!

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However this has to be one of my favorite stories.  This is Cindy. I asked permission to share her photo and story with you and she happily agreed. I was at the table taking sponsorship forms and answering questions and saw her speaking with the Compassion rep. She was holding a packet and ready to fill out the info. She told us that she had attended conferences and concerts in the past, but never felt particularly led to sponsor. This year she said that she prayed that if God wanted her to sponsor a child that he would lead her to the right child and make it obvious. Cindy had adopted a boy from the Philippines. He is now 17 years old. In her hand she held a packet for a little 9 year old boy from the Philippines. This little boy had the same first name as her son! As icing on the cake….he had the SAME BIRTHDAY as her son!  We all agreed that God could not have spoken more clearly.

No matter how a person chooses a child to sponsor,  I’ve got to believe God has His hand on it.  Maybe He’s already chosen you to be a sponsor of a precious little boy or girl.  He knows their name, knows their joys & fears, and knows that what they need is you.  All you have to do is say YES!

 Sponsor a child today!

My Inspiration…

I love Compassion International.  If you spend more than 2 seconds on this blog that should be evident.  I am a volunteer child advocate for Compassion and I love to share with people how they can help change the world through child sponsorship.  Currently my family and I are sponsors to two beautiful girls. Mwajuma from Tanzania & Wannaporn from Thailand.  I also correspond with 9 other children from all over the world for Compassion.  They are our international family and we love them.

But what made me take that first step to sponsor a child?  For years I had done like a lot of people I know.  I would attend a concert or conference, hear the artist or speaker talk about sponsoring a child, avoid eye contact with anyone passing out a packet, and then go about my merry little way.  Sponsorship came up in conversation with my husband occasionally, but it was always connected to these words…some day.  Some day when we are making more money, some day when this bill is paid off, some day I think it would be good to sponsor a child.

That all changed in 2008.  That year Compassion took a group of bloggers to Uganda.  One of them was Carlos Whittaker.  I was a regular reader of Carlos’ blog and enjoyed his gift for weaving words and sentences into blog posts that were challenging and full of authenticity.  I read his words and watched the video updates.  I began to read blog posts from others in the group, but the photos were what grabbed my attention.  As a photographer, I love how a good photograph can capture a moment, convey an emotion, and move an individual.  That’s what happened to me.  The photographs began to move me to action.

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Photo: Compassionbloggers.com

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Photo: CompassionBloggers.com

God spoke very clearly and said it was time that “some day” became “TODAY”.  My husband agreed and with our children we chose to sponsor little 9-year old Mwajuma from Tanzania.

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That move from “some day” to “today” started me on an incredible journey.  We began writing and building a relationship with this special girl.  “Some day” again made its way into my vocabulary when I thought about sponsoring a 2nd child.  In 2012, God clearly said again “TODAY”, and we became the sponsors of Wannaporn from Thailand.

I kept following the various Compassion blogging trips through the years and was inspired over and over by the beautiful photographs.  Some conveying hardships, some conveying joy, but all conveying the hope that can be found by releasing children from poverty in Jesus’ name.

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Earlier this year God blessed me with the opportunity to create my own inspiration.  I traveled on a sponsor tour to Tanzania.  After 6 years of seeing our precious Mwajuma only in photographs, I got to hug, laugh, and just be with her.

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I got to see first hand the difference that sponsorship makes not only in the life of a child, but also in their family and community.   I have many photographs from those incredible 12 days.  Photographs to remember wonderful memories and hopefully to inspire a whole group of new sponsors.

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Want to know more about sponsoring a child through Compassion International?  Click here

The Wait is Over

If you are a Compassion sponsor, watch this video and know that you are making such a difference in the life of a child, their family, and community.  If you are not a sponsor, watch this video and see what $38 a month, your letters, prayers, & love can do.

So little for so much.  We have been given so much….will we share it with those who have so little.  Yes, the money will go a long way to providing educational, health, social, and spiritual help.  More important is the chance to build a relationship with a child who needs to know that poverty does not define them, to know that they are of great worth, and to know that there is hope.

I have 5 children that need sponsors.  I will have their packets until July 18th.  If you’ve ever wanted to know more about Compassion, I’d love to talk with you.  My e-mail is dhhackney@sbcglobal.net.

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Remember, one person can not change the entire world,
but you can change the world for one child! 

How can it be enough?

Last Saturday I received several pieces of mail from Compassion.  I took a break and sat down to read my “Happy Mail”.  The last letter was from 9-year old Godfrey in Uganda.  The front page of the form letter told me about his village and community.  I flipped the letter over and was stopped cold by this: IMG_2990Godfrey was writing to tell me that his mother had died in April.  Tears immediately began to fall and I sat in silence clutching the letter praying and mourning for him.  This little boy who is only 1 1/2 weeks younger than my daugher had already lost his father before I had began to write to him.  Now he was an orphan. I wondered what illness had taken his mother’s life.  Was is AIDS?  Was it malaria?  I will probably never know.  I soon sat down and wrote him a letter.  What do you say to someone so young who has lost so much?  I told him that I loved him.  I told him how sad I was.  I reassured him that God knew how he was feel and the He loved him.  I wrote scripture from Psalms.  I made a “hug” to send him using my hand prints and sent a photo of me holding his “hug”. IMG_317copy7 I placed it all in an envelope and held it tightly, prayed over it, and dropped it in the mail slot.  As I left the post office I though of how it seemed insufficient.  I wondered how it could ever be enough.  God gently reminded me that it was.  Even though all I had to offer was feebly written words, they were penned in love and written besides the unchangeable truth from God’s Word…and that made it enough. God reminded me of just how much power words have….both healing words and hurtful words.  Proverbs 12:8 states that, “Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing”  Word of encouragement to a child have great power.  It’s why I have committed to writing to children all over the world. If I hadn’t been reminded of the importance of what I do as a Compassion advocate and correspondent by that point, God had one more reminder for me that day.  As I pulled into the parking lot of my next destination, Audio Adrenaline’s “Kings & Queens” began playing.  These lyrics came from my speakers.

Little hands, shoeless feet, lonely eyes looking back at me Will we leave behind the innocent too brief On their own, on the run when their lives have only begun These could be our daughters and our sons And just like a drum I can hear their hearts beating I know my God won’t let them be defeated Every child has a dream to belong and be loved

Break our hearts once again Help us to remember when We were only children hoping for a friend Won’t you look around these are the lives that the world has forgotten Waiting for doors of our hearts and our homes to open

Boys become kings, girls will be queens Wrapped in Your majesty  When we love, when we love the least of these Then they will be brave and free Shout your name in victory When we love when we love the least of these

So to those people who saw someone at the farmer’s market wandering around with a tear-stained face, sorry, but I had just had a holy moment with my God. UG4280278 And to Godfrey…You may wonder how it’s possible that someone on the other side of the world who has only spoken to you in a handful of letters can love you so much.  It’s because God placed you into my life and into my heart.  We may never get to meet face to face, but I commit to continue to pray for you, and to write words of encouragement to you.  I will keep your precious letter close.  It will serve to be a reminder to me of the ministry that God has for me to do.  I won’t let you down.